Por Mi Gente Y Para Mi Gente

My upbringing as a “natural” leader:

I’ve often been described as a natural leader from a very young age. I’m not sure if that stems from my intersecting identities as the eldest daughter, a first-generation Latina, and someone unafraid to take risks. Growing up, I quickly realized I would be the “first” in many areas of my family’s journey. While this carried immense responsibility, it also brought pride and joy, knowing that each “first” I took on would help ease the path for mi hermana and create a legacy for my hard-working familia.

My leadership began to take shape in third grade, when I encountered a teacher who was unwilling to accommodate my needs as an English language learner. That experience awakened something in me: an instinct for advocacy, a drive to call out injustice, and a determination to speak up even if the “bullies” I was naming were adults.

I also came to understand how vital representation is, particularly for the Hispanic and Latinx community. One of my core values has always been stepping into leadership roles not just for my own growth, but so others could see themselves reflected in spaces where we are often underrepresented. I recognized early on that visibility matters, that my presence at the table could open doors, shift narratives, and affirm the possibility for those who came after me. Leadership, for me, has never been about position alone, but about carrying mi comunidad with me into every room I enter.

The influence of “You Can’t Fail” in my journey

Being part of “You Can’t Fail (YCF)” has been deeply meaningful in my life. It’s not only because of the incredible support I’ve received from the senior leadership team, but also because of the safe and affirming space created by Black and Brown women. Though our stories are each unique, we share an understanding of the responsibility that comes with navigating systems not always built to honor our power.

Through You Can’t Fail, I’ve had the privilege of holding space for the stories of others while also being lifted and affirmed by women who lead with strength and generosity. This community has taught me that stepping into spaces as my full, authentic fiery, passionate, & assertive self is not only powerful, it has the ability to shift and disrupt spaces that are misaligned with my mission.

The impact of community and representation

“You Can’t Fail,” has reinforced a value I’ve always held close: the profound impact of community and representation. Too often, as women of color, we navigate some of life’s most difficult challenges alone. Sometimes it’s fear of asking for help, other times its hyper-independence born out of survival, or simply the absence of leaning into our own communities.

During my time with YCF, I’ve had countless moments where I found myself thinking, “This is why community matters.” I am immensely grateful for the connections, the representation, and the sense of belonging this space has given me. More than anything, YCF has reminded me that when we come together as women of color, we not only affirm one another we also create the conditions for collective strength, healing, and possibility.

The work beyond “You Can’t Fail.” 

“So what now?” is the question I often ask myself after completing something meaningful. Usually, it comes with a sense of urgency, the drive to immediately act on what I’ve learned, or to quickly pay forward the investment others have made in me. This is simply one of the many beautiful qualities I’ve inherited from my strong and hardworking, papi y mami. But this time feels different. Refreshingly different. My passion for supporting the growth of others, leading with purpose, and helping people uncover their own strengths has always been at the forefront of who I am. Yet “You Can’t Fail” has taught me that it is just as important to pause, to be still, and to pour back into my own cup.

The work beyond “You Can’t Fail” is not only about continuing to lead with purpose, but also about embracing rest, recharge, and gentleness. And by example, showing others the power of tending to their own needs. I truly believe that with the right community and support, a life rooted in mission, purpose, and having spaces where you can show up authentically, is how “You Can’t Fail.”

Mi bella gente, I hope these words serve as a gentle reminder that yes, you too need to love and pour into yourself. Take time to rest. Tend to your needs. And above all, seek out communities that uplift and affirm you. Because in that kind of space, your power and potential can only grow.

Cuando estamos en comunidad animándonos unos a otros, todo puede suceder.

Pa’lante siempre!

Maricelis Abreu

2025 You Can’t Fail Alumna